Meeting them on your own also alleviates being dropped off after at home which in my opinion is deplorable.I’d slump on the floor and cry my eyes out from the grief of that.It’s not at all like when you first were dating, but that’s the feeling they’re likely looking for and thereby judging the experience.They don’t think it’s possible to have that excited and fresh love feeling with you anymore.Especially be steeled mentally for the things you may hear that are your soft spots.One of those for me was hearing my spouse brag about what he was cooking at his apartment and how easy it was.It was one girlfriend in particular who kept me steady during those weeks. Order a new type of cocktail and that pricier blackened halibut or rack of lamb at a nice restaurant!
They feel disproportionately wounded by all the hurtful things you’ve done to them cumulatively over the years of your marriage. The date is not going to be enjoyable as far as they’re concerned.Here is an article itemizing some other points to consider when starting to date your estranged spouse. OK, I need some advice from the good folks on here that may have some experience with this.That could nearly take me out so I had to be ready to hear that and have ‘canned responses’ in my mental repertoire.In their MLC state they have some kind of twisted need to devalue you. You have prayed that this day would come and now it all feels so confusing, maddening, bewildering, sad, and scary.When you are separated from your spouse you are still legally married.