Anyways, I hope you had a good time, maybe we can go out for dinner some time, what do you say?
I also know men now often give women their card and say “call me” instead of asking for their number. Men, unless you want a masculine energy woman who will always take the lead, be the man by taking the traditional lead in communication. • Just because you can send a message immediately doesn’t mean you deserve an immediate response.• Anything that will potentially alter your relationship needs to be done in person or at least speaking on the phone. The problem with any written communication is that its context can be misconstrued. Your relationship is too important to leave up to chance.• Only send a text if it will positively benefit your relationship and it cannot be misconstrued, such as messages stating that you’re running late or communicating other logistical information. Without the inflection of voice to help interpret its meaning, you may take what is written the wrong way. Too many very smart people succumb to the self-defeating act of texting their lover in a moment of emotional insecurity, frequently when they are tipsy or drunk, forgoing any rational judgment.Remember, the receiver has feelings, too (even if he or she is not good at showing them). It’s really easy to type out what you want and just hit send.But that won’t get you the kind of response you need, and it gives the receiver permission to do the same.Texting has changed relationships—and not for the better.