Keep in mind, screen names can also be a deterrent. A name like "lookn4luv" is more likely to attract the romantic types than "easystevie".
Even the goriest of movies never show the most graphic scene on the DVD cover.
Keep the intrigue by saving the details until you and your dream man are intimate for the first time.
Show a little chest or even a leg, but if you wouldn't show it in public don't show it online.
If you've ever been on a gay online dating site, you know that there are hundreds, if not thousands, of guys all looking to connect. And the most successful guys are those that know their market and the product they're presenting—themselves.Have you ever wondered how some of these online guys come up with their screen names?I'm always baffled by the funny spellings and the creative phrases they use, especially while I'm staring at my monitor trying to come up with an eight letter word that will live with me the entire time I'm on the site.By keeping your pics on the PG-17 or R-rated scale you're showing your suitor that you're about more than just about sex.Graphic shots may get more quantity, but it's the quality of man you're looking for.You can be very specific ("My guy is 28 years old") or you can use ranges ("My guy is between 28 and 34 years old").