For one, you both naturally become much more daring as you act.Also, you have to be creative to play the part, and that means coming up with all sorts of naughty things your character might be into.Even naughtier move: Don't only shock him with sexy stroking — also do it when he can't possibly react the way he wants to.
Let others overhear your conversation, since some of the fun is performing for an audience.
"Doing something so naughty while the person on the other end of the phone has no idea ups the wicked factor and makes everything feel more intense," says Allison.
Make a ring with your fingers by touching the top of your pointer finger to the top of your thumb.
Since you'll feel totally like his sex toy, you can add to the arousal of being restrained by begging him to "release" you and let you orgasm.
"Playing up that he's in control and responsible for getting you off is a huge turn-on," says Cynthia W. He can use his power to either allow you to climax or withhold stimulation for a tortuous minute.
Try a Bit of Bondage Getting tied up instantly boosts the sexual energy because it brings in the element of vulnerability.