The same goes for when he preens by smoothing down his shirt or by fixing his hair. Comfortable silences fall under the category of relationship goals.Of course, it’s even sweeter when those comfy silences are filled with a dash of sexual tension.But when there’s sexual tension between you and the person who brushes against you, you’ll feel the electricity rush through you. There’s no reason for a conversation about your mole removal to be steamy. Men instinctively deepen their voices when they’re talking to a woman they find attractive, so if you notice a change in pitch when he talks to you, his body is cluing you in on his crush. You might’ve learned this from Will Smith, but if a woman lingers by her door after a date, it means she wants a kiss. If he lingers after hugging you, then it means that he’s waiting for some more touching to occur. Otherwise, one of you would’ve slid over a few inches. Lucky for us girls, all we have to do is take a glance at his crotch to see if he’s just as attracted to us.If it somehow takes a sexual turn, then your minds are both in the gutter together. Holly Riordan Holly is a science fiction and horror writer, who has recently been published by Flash Fiction Press, Infective Ink, and Popcorn Press.Consenting means only that at this particular time, you would like to engage in this particular sexual behavior.Back to top To determine if someone is giving consent, you must be able to answer two questions: The easiest way to determine if a person wants to give consent is simply to ask.You’ll know it’s happening when the two of you haven’t said a word in an hour, but he’s still gazing at you like you’re the most interesting girl in the world. Harmlessly teasing you about your college major or music taste is the adult equivalent of pushing you down on the playground.After all, when you like someone, you want every conversation to be lighthearted and fun, so that they keep coming back for more. When someone on the bus bumps into you, you won’t feel anything. If even the most innocent conversations feel naughty, then there’s definitely sexual tension between you two. If a man is sitting so close to you that your shoulders touch, there’s definitely a spark there. If you experience a tingling sensation down below, then it’s clear you’re attracted to him.
Leaning toward you while you speak means that he’s interested in what you’re saying.
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Maybe you’re out on a first date, or you’re sitting next to your crush in class.
Even better, it means he wants to get close to you emotionally and physically.
Mirroring your movements is another positive sign that shows all of his attention is on you.
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