Julie G-of course my priority are my children, but they will spend 14 nights out of the month with dad, am I just supposed to sit at home those 14 nights and plan activities for them when I see them again? hmm Candice- My kids are doing great actually because up until wed night we had been working as a hell of a team to make sure that their feelings were put first.My daughter has no idea my ex wants nothing to do with her now, she was not there to hear him say that and I do not plan on telling her either.And even then you'll still have to deal with each other since you have kids together.
Did he wake them and drag them to your house to confront you!?
Our marriage is non salvageable, there is no "looking for help" no talking it out no cooling off period, I'm done and I have made it very clear that I am done.
He however is having a much harder time accepting this and has been trying to "fix" the unfixable for the last month.
My family adores him, so they are not very happy with me right now.
oh and I forgot to add, he's raised my oldest child since she was 5, she's 13 now and he has always claimed to be her dad, her biological stopped seeing her 9 yrs ago and is completely out of the pic, and she sees my ex as her true dad, well now because of this situation he says he no longer wants anything to do with my child, and that he now has 3 daughters not 4, pretty hurtful stuff.
Well I knew he would continue bothering me so I turned off my ringer, 10 mins later something told me to check my phone had 17 missed calls from him.