Wannabe cougar guide The 26-year-old says being a gigolo in a country where older women are placed on a pedestal of sorts in as far as morality is concerned is a herculean task that requires a lot of courage.But just because these women are bolder and care less what society says about them doesn’t mean the feeling is always mutual to the younger men.However, with time, things seem to have changed and more and more young men are open to the idea of dating older, rich women.Of course, this is made possible by the equally high number of randy, old rich women who are constantly on the prowl for either genuine companionship or flings. But a while back, whenever one or two odd, overweight women attempted this strategy, it horribly backfired.The only souls who paid some attention to such types were those coast-based, dreadlocked multilingual beach boys.Liru says having loads of cash and higher social status have a way of making men with hidden agenda get away with disregarding the rules and regulations of morality, which bind lesser mortals. Cash buys older women forbidden freedom “Rich, older women who have been watching this happen now seem not to have qualms with taking advantage of this state of affairs, just like their male counterparts,” says Liru, adding that these women seem to have quickly discovered that money buys forbidden freedom and are exploiting it with reckless abandon.With their children now all grown and out of the way, their randy husbands out there playing ‘sponsors’ to campus girls and caught up in their own indulgences such as business, these aging, bored, rich women are now coming out to play!
It comes off as inappropriate when a grown woman squeezes herself in a dress that is tight in all the wrong places,” says Gideon, adding that poor taste of clad despite being rich is a put off to him and his kind.
“I get tickled each time I see older women in search of younger lovers dressed skimpily or generally inappropriately.
I mean, putting on nice high heels in which one has to awkwardly tiptoe is a turn off,” warns Ominde, adding that putting on shoes that you can hardly walk in will make the boys think you forgot your walking stick at home and sympathise with you instead of getting attracted to you. But, as Ominde says, trying too hard can always be noticed leaving one embarrassed.
“While in public, excessive display of affection will embarrass younger guys.
Most of them are just interested in being studs between the sheets, not romantic boyfriends per se,” says Ominde, adding that excitedly snogging such a dude can land you on social media and embarrass your kids, grandchildren, in-laws and church members.
The only problem is that this is some sort of new phenomenon around here and many older women are still clueless on how to bag these younger men.