Me, being Lisa's closest Aquarian friend and astrologer, one can only imagine how many times we tried to analyze the behavior of these weird beings.It is a paradox, even astrologically, why Aquarius men are so often so stereo-typically Aquarian.Lisa hated to meet the attractive Aquarian who seemed apparently happy and successful but still being stuck in ‘some’, 'big' personal problems which paralyzed him at home alone, avoiding any unnecessary social contacts.For me this is an understandable and commonplace strategy for dealing with personal troubles, but how can you explain that to an energetic, extravagant Leo who will go out to drink, dance, and flirt when things seem to not feel that good?They will call if they have something to talk about rather than to check how you are generally doing.They are not much warm to phone-calls with chit-chat intentions.It does not mean a responsibility to entertain the other person or even a need to meeting them again.
Differences of opinion are often healthy for relationship compatibility; Aquarius is an expert at differences of opinion, managing to hold numerous contrasting opinions on the same subject before breakfast, so your relationship should certainly involve a healthy amount of intellectual to and fro.
I'm talking of those disturbingly aloof, allergic to commitment and extensive communication, who keep yo-yo-ing between being close and distant. But this is maybe what makes them so mysteriously attractive, apart from their generally good looks. But they play differently, and above all, they play in their own terms and rules. Advanced mind games based on testing one’s tolerance to freedom, friendship as an indication of pure love, and of course testing the degree of happiness that can be achieved by an orgasm. Lisa complained they think too much about everything.
My experience has showed that Aquarian guys are in most cases very good looking indeed. Being active and initiative is not a good alternative either, since they can easily push you away while gently blaming you for impatient temperament. She instantly spotted an Aquarian once, who later turned to be one of her 2012 dates, by him answering to the question ‘What are you doing after that?
There is an antidote, however, being a good amount of intelligent humor.
If anything else, Aquarian guys respond to humor instantly, since they see it as a brilliant challenge for mind games.
Seriously it cannot be explained directly but fortunately Leos can also be tolerant enough to accept it despite their lack of direct understanding.